Tuesday, April 1, 2014

Three Things About People

Throughout my years on this planet, I have come to realize 3 things about people: their actions are unpredictable, unexplainable, or unknown.

And through this, I have learned not to take anything personally.

Expect less and you won't get hurt as easily. In fact, just don't have any expectations (to a certain degree.. Obviously you have the expectation that your best friend isn't going to throw you out of his/her car on a busy parkway). What I am talking about are things in the grayer area.

People are strange. They act in ways that you may not be able to understand. But most of the time, it has nothing to do with you. They do things for their on convenience or some reasons we will never know. Don't expect them to explain themselves or apologize. Learn to let it go (it took me years).

Instead of getting caught up in the unknown and solving puzzles of what other people are thinking (which will never get anywhere), forget about that crap and focus on yourself and positive energy.

Free yourself from mental anguish by focusing on your inner peace and less of the effect others have on you. When you are at peace with yourself, you will worry less about why people do what they do.